TY - BOOK AU - James,Oliver TI - They f** you up: how to survive family life SN - 9780747584780 (pbk.) : AV - BF723.P4 U1 - 155.924 JAM PY - 2007/// CY - London PB - Bloomsbury KW - Families KW - Psychological aspects KW - Family KW - Personality development KW - Child psychology KW - Psychology KW - ukslc KW - thema KW - Family & relationships: advice & issues N1 - Previous ed.: 2002; Includes bibliographical references (p. 345-372) and index; 1. Our genes -- 2.Scripting our family drama -- 3.Scripting our conscience, aged three to six -- 4.Scripting our relationship patterns in our first three years -- 5.Scripting our sense of self in our first six months -- 6.Be your own scriptwriter -- Conclusion -- Appendix 1: The dubiousness of the Minnesota twins reared-apart study -- Appendix 2: Twin studies - a warning -- Appendix 3: Estimates of the environality of human psychology from twin studies N2 - This text demonstrates that who we are is largely the result of the way we were cared for during our first six years, rather than our genes and other environmental factors ER -